We know that going on a date can feel like both an exciting and nerve-wracking feat. It’s not every day you go out with someone new, and making an impression immediately is the goal, right? It’s all about making the most of your date and taking the time to not only be you but to also be prepared. So, what should you talk about? Simple question, yes, but it really just depends on what you’re looking for. If you’re just trying to get to know someone, then general topics like hobbies and favorite movies are always a good bet. However, if you’re looking for something more serious, then you’ll need to dig a little deeper. Questions about money, religion, and long-term goals are all good topics of conversation. By getting to know your date on a deeper level, you’ll be able to better determine if there’s a future there. So, go ahead and ask away! Who knows, you might just find your perfect match.
Now, Here’s How to Spark a Great Conversation
One of the easiest ways to break the ice on a first date is to simply ask your date about themselves. What do they do for fun? What kind of hobbies do they have? What was their favorite vacation? Asking questions about your date’s interests will not only help you get to know them better, but it will also give you a chance to share your own interests and experiences. Instead of simply asking “What do you do for a living?” Dive a bit deeper, try asking “What made you choose your career?” or “What sort of work do you find most fulfilling?” If you find yourself stuck searching for something to say, try talking about current events or discussing a shared interest.
For example, if you both love movies, you could talk about your favorite film genres or debate whether Hollywood is making too many superhero movies. If you’re looking for a more serious conversation, try asking your date about their views on religion or politics. However, be prepared to respect your date’s opinions even if you don’t agree with them. After all, everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. Always remember to keep an open mind and enjoy getting to know someone new!
Whatever conversation starters you choose, the important thing is to keep the conversation flowing. Once you get started, it’ll be much easier to keep things going. So, go ahead and give it a try! You might just be surprised at how well it goes.
15 Most Important Topics to Talk About On a First Date
When you’re out on a date, it’s important to get to know your partner. Here are some questions to ask to help you get started:
1. What are you looking for in a partner?
This is a question that can help you gauge what your partner is looking for in a relationship. Are they looking for something serious, or are they just trying to have some fun? Do they want someone who is tall, dark, and handsome? Or do they prefer someone who is kind and considerate? By asking this question, you’ll get a better understanding of what they want and if you could potentially be a good match. It’s important to get to the nitty-gritty of what each other wants so that there are no misunderstandings down the road.
2. What do you worry about in the middle of the night?
This is a great question to get to know your partner on a deeper level. What do they worry about? Do they have any fears or anxieties? This can help you understand them better and provide support if they need it.
3. What are your long-term goals?
It’s important to know what your partner wants out of life. Do they want to get married and have kids? Do they want to travel the world? Do they want to build a successful career? Knowing their long-term goals will give you a better idea of where they see themselves in the future and whether or not you fit into that picture.
4. Do you have any spiritual beliefs?
Similar to religion, some people have spiritual beliefs without necessarily being religious. This can include things like a belief in karma or reincarnation. It’s important to know if your partner believes in something beyond this life as it could impact how they live their lives and make decisions in the future with the relationship and with family.
5. What are your thoughts on religion?
Religion can be a touchy subject for some people, but it’s important to know where your partner stands. Do they have strong religious beliefs? Are they spiritual but not religious? Do they not believe in anything? This is something that can impact your relationship down the line, so it’s best to know from the start.
6. What are your thoughts on money?
Money is always a tricky subject. Do they believe that money is the root of all evil? Or do they think that it’s the key to happiness? How do they feel about spending and saving? This is something that you’ll need to discuss in more detail as your relationship progresses, but it’s a good idea to get an idea of their general thoughts on the subject so you can anticipate potential hiccups down the line.
7. What do you think about fate and destiny?
This is a question that can help you get to know your partner’s views on life. Do they believe that everything happens for a reason? Do they think that we’re all just products of our environment? Or do they believe that we have control over our own lives? Knowing where your partner stands on this can truly help you to better understand how they think
8. What is your biggest fear?
We all have fears, some of which are big and others that are small. It’s important to know what your partner is afraid of as this can assist you in how you approach certain circumstances, whether emotional or physical. Knowing their fears can also help you be there for them when they’re feeling anxious, afraid, or down.
9. What are your thoughts on marriage and children?
This is another important question to ask. Do they want to get married, or are they perfectly happy with things the way they are? Do they want children, or are they content without them? Asking these questions will help you get a better understanding of their thoughts on commitment and family, and if your expectations align.
10. What are your thoughts on sex?
Sex is a natural part of any relationship, but it’s important to know where your partner stands on the subject. Do they believe that sex should be reserved for marriage? Or do they think that it’s okay to have sex outside of marriage? Do they have any particular sexual preferences or fantasies? These are all things that you’ll need to discuss in more detail as your relationship progresses, but it’s a good idea to get an idea of their general thoughts on the subject. You will continue to explore this topic, I’m sure, but having a foundation to go from will be pertinent as you develop a long-term relationship.
11. Do you believe that people can change or grow over time?
This is an important question to ask because it can reveal a lot about your partner’s views on relationships. Do they believe that people can change and grow over time? Or do they think that we’re all stuck with the same personality traits for life? Asking this question will help you get a better understanding of their views on relationships and whether or not they’re willing to work on things and shift their ideals when needed.
12. What are your thoughts on communication in a relationship?
Communication is vital in any relationship, so it’s important to know where your partner stands on the subject. Do they believe that open and honest communication is necessary for a healthy relationship? Or do they think that it’s okay to keep things to themselves? We all know communication, along with compromise are important to any relationship. So ask this question and get to the bottom of how you will be able to communicate with them, or not!
13. What are your thoughts on compromise in a relationship?
Compromise is another important aspect of any healthy relationship, so it’s important to know where your partner stands. Are they willing to go with the flow and make necessary adjustments to create a calm and fruitful relationship?. Do they believe that compromise is necessary for a healthy relationship? Or do they think that it’s okay to hold firm on your beliefs? Get to asking this question too, and discuss how you have seen compromise come into play in a relationship.
14. What are your thoughts on trust in a relationship?
Trust is essential in any relationship. Trust creates peace and understanding in any relationship. Be open to have a conversation about their experience with trust along with yours, and what trust looks like for you. It will make a world of difference down the line to have the conversation now.
15. What is your relationship history like?
Get all up in their business. What happened in their past? What was their last relationship like? Why didn’t it work out? Learning these things will help you to not replicate the same situation while also having a grasp of the type of person you are dealing with. My mom always said, if someone talks bad about their last partner, you do not want to be with them! It’s important to know where your partner stands on the subject of relationships.
If you’re looking for date night ideas, be sure to check out our blog post on “10 Most Romantic Date Ideas You Should Never Miss!” Happy dating!
50 Deep Conversation Starters for Coupls
- What kind of things do you like to do for fun?
- What kind of relationship are you looking for?
- What is your definition of a perfect relationship?
- Do you have any deal breakers in a relationship?
- What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship?
- Do you have any fears or concerns about entering into a committed relationship?
- What are your thoughts on family and friends in a relationship?
- What do you think are the most important things to keep in mind in order to maintain a healthy and happy relationship?
- What are some of your favorite things to do?
- Do you have any siblings or pets?
- What’s your favorite movie? TV show? Music artist?
- What kind of food do you like?
- What’s your favorite vacation spot?
- What’s the best trip you’ve ever been on?
- What’s the worst?
- Do you have any close friends?
- How would you describe yourself? (Physically, personality-wise, etc.)
- What is your ideal relationship like? (Monogamous, open, long-term, short-term, etc.)
- What is your relationship history like? (Past heartbreaks, one-night stands, long-term relationships, etc.)
- What kind of sex do you like? (Vanilla, kinky, etc.)
- What are your thoughts on monogamy? (Required, optional, etc.)
- What are your thoughts on open relationships? ( the same as above)
- What are your thoughts on marriage? (Required, optional, etc.)
- Do you want kids? (Someday, never, already have them, etc.) If yes, how many? When?
- Do you consider yourself a good person? (Why or why not?)
- What is your biggest accomplishment?
- Do you have any pets? (What kind?)
- What is your favorite thing about yourself?
- Do you have any tattoos or piercings? (What and where?)
- Do you have any allergies or medical conditions I should know about?
- How do you feel about Donald Trump? (as president, not a person)
- What is your favorite thing about your life right now?
- What is your least favorite thing about your life right now?
- What are you doing with your life right now? (Job, school, etc.)
- Where do you see yourself in five years? Ten years?
- What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind when you die? (if any)
- Do you have any fears or concerns about death?
- What is the meaning of life, in your opinion?
- Do you think people are truly capable of change?
- Do you believe in ghosts?
- What about aliens?
- Do you have any otherworldly or paranormal experiences to share? (if any)
- Do you consider yourself a creative person? (In what ways?)
- What is art, in your opinion?
- Who is your favorite artist?
- What is your favorite piece of art?
- Do you have any talents or skills that you’re proud of?
- What are some things you want to learn how to do?
- Do you enjoy learning new things? (In general, or just certain subjects?)
- How would you describe your work ethic?
Asking your date questions about their thoughts and feelings on various topics will not only help you get to know them better but will also give you a better understanding of what they are looking for in a relationship. These questions can be used as a starting point for further discussion. Remember, the most important thing is to keep the conversation flowing and to enjoy getting to know someone new!
Do you have any other questions that you would add to the list? Or do you have any dating horror stories? Let us know in the comments below!
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