Life has become dull. Things feel robotic. Wake up, shower, grab a coffee, work, take care of the kids, work, clean, connect with your partner, watch Netflix, and get in bed #repeat. That’s not how your day is really supposed to be. No shade — I did this yesterday, minus the kids. Sometimes though, there’s a drive to want more. An urge to experience more.
So, how do you know it’s time for you and yours to get away? Sometimes it’s just that the standard date night formula has worn thin. Movies are all the same, and the new restaurant that opened down the road is exactly like the last one, and daily happenings have become an expected routine. But not for long with us.
What could be more exciting? A trip to the other side of the world to hike the mountains, snorkel miles of coral reefs, climb snow-capped peaks, or ride a camel across the desert? Planning the ideal couples getaway can take more time than expected. When you have the desire, you know it is the right time to plan that couples retreat. Here are eight tips.
But first,
What is a Couple’s Retreat?
Couples retreats, aka couples experiences, couples spiritual reconnections, and couples goals, are one-of-a-kind vacation packages that get you to level up your life individually and in a relationship.
Couples retreats are like a compilation of the best date night ideas, but shared with others – we know – even better. We want you to rekindle the fire. Stay connected. Build the good vibes. Connect with others and literally have such an incredible time that you don’t know what to do with yourself. It’s the escape from everyday stressors. The time needed to have the fun you so desperately needed, and the relaxation with a side of quality time coupled with incredible conversations that will warm your soul for a long time. Ready?
This means no kids, no deciding what to cook for dinner, and no watching bad TV at night to unwind after a long day – we got you covered, FRIENDS!
8 signs its time for a Romantic Getaway
It’s easy to put our love lives on the back burner when life gets hectic. Investing energy and time in our romantic relationships may fall further down the priority list between work, kids, friends, and finances. Is this something you’ve heard before? However, there are many ways to rekindle the flame, and one of the best ways is to go on a relaxing, romantic vacation with your sweetheart.
Do you and your significant other(s) fit this description? We’ve put together a list of seven indicators that it’s time to book a romantic vacation.
You think you know everything about each other
If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’re familiar with each other. But what if you spent time away from your usual surroundings? Traveling to a new location and being in a new environment allows you to discover previously unknown facts about your significant other(s). It’s time to step out of your daily comfort zone to connect on another level. What are the secrets you may have been hiding from one another? What is it that you really want out of your relationship? Is there a sexual disconnect, and are you ready to have that eliminated? Get to the other side during a couples retreat.
Lack of intimacy
This is one of the key indicators that your relationship requires an extended getaway. In relationships, both intimacy and sex are essential. They are the elements that strengthen your relationship and remind you of your love for one another. However, these two can fade if you and your partner do not prioritize them.
As a result, you may become emotionally and physically detached from your partner, straining the beautiful bond you once shared, almost like you’re in love with the wrong person.
On the other hand, attending a couples retreat can help you rekindle the love you once had and improve your sex life. We know we ALL want that!
Rise of Infidelity issues
Reasons for infidelity should be discussed openly and honestly. This can destroy a previously successful partnership or marriage if left unresolved. It can also exacerbate unnecessary bitterness and trust issues that could have been avoided if the issue had been addressed.
So, if you and your partner are having infidelity problems, consider attending a Couples Retreat, even if it is only for a weekend, to try to work through and talk things out…
You feel more like roommates than lovers
When you start to feel like your partner is more like a roommate than your lover, you should seek professional help. And the only way to get this kind of assistance is to attend a couples retreat to rekindle your love, discuss issues, be around others that may have tackled the same issue, and explore a newfound reality for your relationship.
On the brink of divorce
When you are considering divorce, it is time to attend a couples retreat vacation to try to save your marriage. You should also consider a couples retreat if you and your partner constantly argue over the same issues and no longer laugh.
Furthermore, it is time to seek professional assistance if you cannot have meaningful conversations with them.
Love feels like a routine
Routine is good, but if your love life is the same day in and day out, it might be time to shake things up with a destination to light things up. New surroundings make for new experiences! What better way to spice up your life than to plan the vacation you’ve always wanted to take with the person you care about the most?
There’s no teamwork
Allowing yourself to be vulnerable with the other person is the key to deeper intimacy in your relationship. If you haven’t reached this level of comfort, or things have shifted from where they once were, consider venturing outside your comfort zone and traveling together to a foreign country with folks that can converse about real-life couple happenings. Everything isn’t always perfect – let’s talk it through.
By putting yourself in a vulnerable position, you will learn to trust one another and maybe even make some outside connections that become your advisors or best friends. Now you will be able to work as a team to overcome communication barriers and navigate seemingly tough issues and unexpected life happenings. So allow yourself to flex those trust muscles once more! We got you!
You are feeling disconnected
When did you spend time intentionally with your significant other without distractions? If the answer is “I don’t remember,” it’s probably time to invest time away together! Take advantage of the time you have together and give your undivided attention to the love of your life. Bonus tip: Turn off your phones to disconnect from the outside world and reconnect with each other.
What Is The Difference Between Couples Counseling And A Couples Retreat?
There is a distinction between a couples retreat and couples therapy. While both assist couples in maintaining a healthy relationship, each option can be a great choice and may solve relationship concerns. While a couples retreat may allow you to isolate yourself and focus on specific aspects of your relationship, therapy will likely examine the overall nature of your bond with your partner. A quality couples retreat will allow you to do both. Experience more together. Connect on a deeper level and an opportunity to tackle the deep issues you may have.
How Do Couples Retreat Work?
Couples retreats are an excellent way to rejuvenate your relationship while enjoying a uniquely romantic and experiential getaway away from the stresses of everyday life. A retreat allows you to disconnect from work, children, and daily responsibilities. Instead, you can escape, look inward, and concentrate on yourself and one another.
Retreats are typically held in a private, cozy, and lovely setting, allowing you to receive personalized attention while re-establishing and improving your relationship. Retreats typically include discussions, lectures, fun activities, games, quality time, relaxation, and unforgettable experiences while connecting with like-minded individuals.
In addition to a special journey into the depths of your personality and relationship, you can enjoy outstanding recreational opportunities, fine dining options, and quiet time in the serenity of your retreat destination during your couples retreat.
There you have it. We hope this itinerary helped you put things in perspective. If you feel things zoning out with someone you plan to spend forever with, by all means, indulge!
And if you need an extra hand, check out these Simple Ways to Make Your Partner Feel Wanted.
Best of Luck!
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Author-Bio:
Leader Nwabekeh is a freelance content/creative writer. She is currently pursuing a law degree. She aspires to see the world through writing and help others see the world through her words.
