When you need a break from all things “daily life” there is something so miraculous about spending time with your lover along with others aligned with your life’s goals. Planning a romantic getaway that will be exciting and relaxing. Being in a space that will be sacred, and exhilarating. Being amongst people that challenge you and help to inspire and shift your mindset out of your norm. This is what is important for you, for me, and for us – together! Sure, let’s note too, there’s nothing more special than a wonderful couples getaway with your significant other, whether it’s getting away from your busy schedules or finally getting a sitter for the little ones. We know for sure that every single damn couple in this here lovely world deserves paradise.
Couples Experience is here to help you break the ice and embark on adventures you won’t find anywhere else. The courage to commit to a big trip with your significant other to heighten your life is what we live for. Here are some key elements to planning and carrying out that fairytale couples retreat you and your special someone never thought you could pull off.
Stop with the excuses
We get it. Planning sucks. Thinking about everything you need to do can cause some serious resistance, but WE ARE NOT HERE FOR IT. Ummmkay?!. A wave of problems tends to douse the flame of excitement that comes with traveling to a new destination. How much will this cost? Can I take this much time off work? Do we both want to go to the same destination? Will we like the other attendees? What if we don’t like the place? Stop the questions. Stop the excuses, and shove those negative deterrents out of your mind because FRIENDS – we have a great life to live.
So how do you move toward taking a trip of a lifetime? The key is to stop with excuses. Tackle each question one by one if you must, and recognize the worry is causing the issues, not the actual questions. Not to mention, there’s a solid quote for you—
The things you can buy with your excuses cost you too much.
It’s time…to allow yourself to grow upwards. No stagnant life needed.
Pick a destination outside of the box
There are so many destinations in this world awaiting your exploration. One of our greatest differences in designing our couples retreats is the locales we pick. We select the places that will light your soul on fire. The places you never knew you would dream of for years to come. The places that will interrrupt your life with so much thrill and inspiration that you leave the old you behind you when you leave. Connect with us to learn about our next destination pick. If spaces are open, join us!
Don’t plan, just be
Yep, I said it. For those of you that always need to plan, let go of the control. Make space for the magnificence of the universe’s plan to take over your experience. Most cases, well coordinated couples retreats will have a solid itinerary with gaps. No need to plan your every moment. Greatness arrives right on time, outside of plans. Get ready to be relaxed, connected, well taken care of and experience the best that is meant to occur – just for you!
Enjoy your quality time
Conversations held in quiet. We know 1:1 time is often the most important time during a couples retreat. Make it a point of taking advantage of your free time outside the itinerary to snuggle, delve into your feelings, and build an undeniable interconnection between you and your partner(s).
Try incorporating one or two of the following ideas into your 1:1 time:
- A collection of “Would You Rather” questions to ask one another.
- Crafts or cooking classes.
- Spend quiet time together in nature, by the pool or at the beach.
- Engage in The And Couples Edition cards.
- Discuss topics based on a breakout session or a favorite speaker’s talk.
Let us know how it goes!
Connect with other couples
Nothing encourages growth more than having real conversations with other couples in attendance. Take the time to get to know someone else outside of the scheduled sessions. It’s not always about you. When you listen to others, you begin to illuminate your own experience. It’s extremely likely for you to leave being the best of friends, all because of a conversation.
No phones or computers
This will help eliminate distractions. A couple’s retreat is all about exploring and sharing new experiences, and as tempting as it may be to photograph every step of your adventure, consider the impact it will have on your trip.
Your vacation is for you and your partner to enjoy, engross yourself in getting to know others and to deepen your relationship. This should not be disrupted by technology or the need to check social media. Leave your phone and electronic devices in another room. Make sure to keep your portable speaker though – listen, we gotta dance!
Pick the best room
You know luxury is our middle name. We always pick the best of the best for us and for any of the amazing individuals attending any of our retreats. So when you can book early you should, so you can select the best room. You know the Instagram-worthy room. Don’t forget though – phone down after you take a photo!
Participate in programs
Couple’s retreats allow you and yours to participate in various activity-led programs that encourage you to work as a team and create new memories while embarking on an adventure.
Investigate, investigate, investigate!
Ask questions. Immerse yourself in the pictures of where you will be going. Connect with the other couples beforehand. The world is your oyster and when you arrive we want you to be ready to relish in the investment you’ve made.
Work on your personal development.
To love and understand others, you must first love yourself. If you and your partner are arguing, bickering, or not seeing each other’s point of view, a couple’s retreat is the ideal place to work on these issues while also working on yourself.
While you have this time to yourself, it is important to focus on your relationship, what you expect, want, and require from your partner, and to take steps to improve yourself the same way you expect your partner to. With Couples Experience retreats, there will be a relationship coach, spiritual advisors, and folks that may have experienced something similar in their own relationship. Take advantage of sharing and don’t worry about being judged. The space is inclusive, the energy is of acceptance and the memory will be of evolvement and connection.
Set goals for yourself to meet by the end of your couple’s getaway, and make sure your partner(s) does the same. This means you can work on rekindling your relationship and resolving any issues or maintaining the quality relationship you already have.
Communicate with one another.
Any getaway requires you to listen to whoever you’re traveling with, so, consider the couple’s retreat you’ve pre-booked and figure out what each of you wants from your time there. Then, listen to one another’s ideas and be open to new ideas, and solutions.
There you have it. We hope these amazing couples retreat recommendations set you up for success, connection, and evolution.
Have a splendid time, and oh! Feel free to reference this list anytime.
With pleasure, Cheers!
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